SADSA The South African Divorce Support Association

JUST WHEN THE CATERPILLAR THOUGHT THE WORLD WAS OVER, IT TURNED INTO A BUTTERFLY

SADSA is about helping people learn to hold their own emotional ground in the middle of intense conflict situations. www.sadsa.net

Members

  • Nomalizo Yvonne Mvimbi
  • Natalie
  • Nadia Thonnard
  • Alex
  • Rollo Ravenscroft
  • Clifford
  • Marcus
  • Belinda Ann Roebert
  • venetia koen
  • Glenn ginsberg
  • Bernadine
  • Lucy Maritz
  • Alet Steenkamp
  • Chrislene Sadan
  • Robyn
  • Corlette Heyns
  • Mandy Roberts
  • Petricia Marang
  • sheralee  scott
  • Bev Scott-Brown

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April 27
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April 27
Hi Marcus, Thank you so much for the response. Yes, it was a while ago. I have since been to the Maintenance Courts, and the issue has been sorted. However, they informed me that they could not assist with access/ visitation and I would have to go…
April 26
Hey Robyn I see that some time has elapsed since you posted this. How has your experience been with the maintenance courts? I suspect that Lizelle meant a "rule 42", which is an application to the courts for either access to children or maintenanc…
April 26
Hi Marcus, Interesting topic, and I often have the same question. Often I feel the need to get things off my chest regarding my ex's behaviour, and I do, to people who I know I can trust and who care about me. But I do often end up feeling bad or g…
April 26
 

SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association

SADSA is about helping people learn to hold their own emotional ground in the middle of intense conflict.

My name is Nadia and I am the Founder of SADSA and a qualified counsellor and NLP Practitioner.
I have gone through a divorce after a 20 year relationship and am a single mom to two beautiful teenage sons.
Having dealt with this effectively, I have gone on to work into this field because of my passion to assist.

Divorce is NOT a breakup point in your life, but a change of direction.

SADSA is here
- To assist you in this journey so as to explore the opportunities that are arising from this life changing situation.
- To keep the focus on the children's best interest
- Help you make lasting, sound decision about parenting
- Assist you, the parents, in working together to develop a child-centered custody plan and improve your ability to co-parent.

This is not the end but a new Beginning.


Why not visit our Sister Network: Single Parents Chat Group -
http://singleparentsnetwork.ning.com/

http://www.sadsa.net | Office: +27(0)82 344 33 43 | http://www.innerminds.co.za

Notes

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Follow this link to download my FREE eBook.
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Created by Nadia Thonnard Feb 15, 2010 at 4:21pm. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Feb 15.

Developing a Compassionate Mind

Dear All,

for many a New Year is a time to mark changes in their lives. We call them "New Resolutions". When having gone through or going through a breakup, a New Year may help us literally to turn a new leaf but in order for this to be effective we need to be able to let go.
Changes can be hard to face though as we are letting go of familiarity even if what is familiar causes us hurt. However, letting go is not about running away or forgetting events, letting go is about making… Continue

Created by Nadia Thonnard Jan 5, 2010 at 8:43am. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Jan 5.

Christmas Holidays

If you are divorced/separated, with children, Christmas will probably been seen as a time of great challenge and even conflict over who gets the children and for how long.

Remember that your child did not ask to be placed in this situation.

Before the breakup, I'm sure that Christmas was always about the children and for the children but now you are faced with the challenges of a new family unit. Whether alone or in a new relationship there is much more to consider.
It… Continue

Created by Nadia Thonnard Dec 3, 2009 at 3:28pm. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Dec. 3, 2009.

Be Successful

3 Questions to Help You Hear Your Soul

* Be who you are to be successful.
* Live from your passion.
* Risk taking what matters to you and share it with the world. 

That’s all well and good, but how can you tell when you are living into those qualities?

Easy… when you are pulling the power of your soul through everything you do, including your business.

Here are three questions to help you hear… Continue

Created by Nadia Thonnard Nov 25, 2009 at 10:09am. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Nov. 25, 2009.

The Three Big Myths of Stepfamily Life by Wednesday Martin

Myth #1: Stepfamilies should look, feel and act just like first families.

Wrong! Stepfamilies are comprised of two linked households, usually have an ex in the picture, and bond best one-on-one versus as a large group. They also bring together different family traditions and histories. One family I interviewed put up two Christmas trees every year, because the kids from each previous marriage wanted to hew to their own ways. And that's ok
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Created by Nadia Thonnard Nov 25, 2009 at 7:58am. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Nov. 25, 2009.

NB:

Even parents who care deeply about their children often can fail to view divorce through the eyes of the children. And, children of divorce rarely give complete accounts of their deepest fears and confusions. Seeing things through their eyes, however, is obviously critical to helping them. Continue

Created by Nadia Thonnard Nov 20, 2009 at 10:15am. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Nov. 20, 2009.

Relaxation Technique

Everyday Self Hypnosis - Jevon Dängeli -

Today’s problems cannot be solved with yesterday’s solutions!

In this high-tech and fast paced age it’s now more necessary than ever before to make time for reconnecting with our inner recourses and creativity in order to perfor

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Created by Nadia Thonnard Nov 18, 2009 at 7:29am. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Nov. 18, 2009.

Coping with Stress and Change

Marital separation and divorce can be two of the most difficult events in an adult’s life. Much stress comes from three sources:

• the daily tasks and responsibilities that
must be reorganized,

• the loss of significant relationships and
possessions,

• and the need to establish a new identity
as an individual. Continue

Created by Nadia Thonnard Nov 18, 2009 at 7:24am. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Nov. 18, 2009.

How to overcome Holiday depression during and after divorce

By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT

Thanksgiving, Christmas – most any holiday -- can bring up painful memories of happier times, especially if you are divorced and have children. But keep in mind that with the pain comes a choice. You can choose to acknowledge the past for what it was. You can value the good times you might have had together. Then you can choose to move on and let go.

If you don’t, you will likely get stuck tormenting yourself with the "shoulds." We should still be a… Continue

Created by Nadia Thonnard Nov 17, 2009 at 10:11am. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Nov. 17, 2009.

Notes Home

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Created by Nadia Thonnard Nov 15, 2009 at 1:48pm. Last updated by Nadia Thonnard Nov. 15, 2009.

Events

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Robyn

Maintenance Court 4 Replies

Hi, I would like to know if anyone has any advice from previous experience of dealing with the Maintenance Courts. It is going to be my first visit next week, and am wondering if anyone has has any s…

Started by Robyn. Last reply by Robyn Apr 26.

Marcus

Ex-Bashing 2 Replies

Hey All Here is a question that I've been pondering over the last few weeks, and I wondered if anyone had any ideas on how to deal with this situation: what do you do with the "how are things with t…

Started by Marcus. Last reply by Robyn Apr 26.

Mandy Roberts

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Nadia Thonnard

What are you going to do different this year? 8 Replies

New year is always time when it is easy to draw a line and set out new intentions. Having gone through a breakup you have been able to look at your life through many, many different emotions. In orde…

Started by Nadia Thonnard. Last reply by Nols Jan 5.

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